I can tell you right now, don't get this out at the library, because you'll want your own copy to highlight and underline. This is one of those books that you see as a great gift book.
"Good communication is as stimulating as black coffee and just as hard to sleep after. "
"Security in a relationship lies neither in looking back to what it was in nostalgia, nor forward to what it might be in dread or anticipation, but living in the present relationship and accepting it as it is now.”
“When you love someone you do not love them, all the time, in the exact same way, from moment to moment. It is an impossibility. It is a lie to pretend to. And yet this is exactly what most of us demand. We have so little faith in the ebb and flow of life, of love, of relationships.”